What if we weakened men….

What I mean by we; is women. What if this new era that we are living in to claim your power, speak up, be self expressed, and be independent. That somewhere along the line we took over the masculine energy. I am not saying to stop being these things.. But, what if in our quest to gain our own power, we squashed the men in our lives? I question this only because I see so many power struggles with men and women.

I see women pushing to talk about the relationship, pushing to be right, to push and pull a man into the way that they think they should be… Men like to solve problems, they want to conquer and if we continually give them a reason to feel that they are not achieving, they are not solving, we are weakening them and their energy. We have so much power as women.. We don’t even realize it sometimes I don’t think. If we awakened to this spirit we would love the man and we would work together with him in partnership for more meaningful purposes to work on solving rather than.. “I can’t believe you looked at her that way, You didn’t say that right, You never do that for me, You just don’t get it..” I mean we put so much time putting men down…. That it can be hard for them to really come alive and be the man they were destined to be…

Granted I am not saying that men are angels. ! They have their own issues to work through.. But, what if we as woman honored a man and stood behind them like they could solve the world and work in partnership. Rather than me against you, women against men, men against women. There is this separation. What if, yes, we did stick together as women and men, but we worked together to create this amazingly different experience. There is something creative, powerful and beautiful when the masculine and feminine energy merge for greater purposes!!

My thought today is that we just need to lighten up on men. Be true to who we are, I am not saying allow them to do whatever they want to do and be a door mat. I am saying just stand in a place that he is a man of honor, that he is a man of strength, courage, love. If we stood in that place of expecting the men in our lives to show up that way. My thought is that everyone’s world would change and the relationships between men and women might start to look a bit different.

Sometimes women nowadays are trying to take it all on, being this and that and this and that. And, men want to be needed, and useful, if we don’t give them the opportunity we weaken them.. So, if you have a man give him some good love, thank him for being there for you, if you don’t have a man, I say just start to observe how you interact with men. Is it always on what they don’t do? If so, start to shift it to how great they are, and just love them exactly the way they are, and watch them start to show up with a new energy!! Cheers to feminine and masculine power!